This subreddit is for The Ultimatum South Africa (2024). "A six-way partner-swap sparks wild attractions and tearful betrayals; participants choose whom to love and leave in this heart-pounding experiment."
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Nolla is such a scary person😳 tbh pathological liars in general are
Sorry I like Ruth - she was at least honest about what she did and why 🤷🏾♀️
Nolla is scary to me. He lies, cheats and deliberately obfuscates as a strategy to confuse people and not be held accountable. When Ruth confessed he then immediately retaliated and tried to hurt Ruth by telling Isaac. He failed to take any accountability for his actions. He needs therapy. He needs validation from women and will look for it anywhere.
Therapy won't help him, he seems to have a personality disorder.
Ruth was deceptive. She smiled and flirted with everyone and ignored her ex. When Lebo confronted her about holding hands, she was getting defensive EVEN THOUGH THEY HAD SEX.
Did she? I thought Nolla was the one who denied holding hands and then he told Lebo to ask Ruth and she immediately said yes. I don't recall her ever hiding anything from Lebo.
She didn’t deny it but after they were confronted about holding hands Ruth was talking shit.. like she hadn’t just slept with Lebo. She also later on said she doesn’t apologise for making mistakes but then says to Isaac she fucked up….
Nolla sucks, while yes Ruth fucked up but I don’t think she’s an awful person
She's only getting a pass because she's a woman and she beat Nolla to revealing because of her guilty conscience.
They are equals.
Ruth is a horrible person
I think this was Ruth trying to break into acting. Her story seems a bit gimmicky to me. Also, her IG profile has “thespian 🎭” in the bio.
She already said she was an actress to Lindile but I don’t think this was a part of it honestly
She said she had sex with Nolla because she wanted to have sex with somebody, that is such a red flag for a relationship. I'm shocked no one's talking about that
She did Lebo a favor by letting her know her man ain’t 💩
No, shes owning it. Shes not blaming anyone for her choices. What other reason would you like to hear from her?
She’s owning that she’s a horrible person, she encouraged nolla and is the same as nolla.
Except she didnt lie to people and she was considerate of Lebo about telling her in private, so actually not the same at all
I think it was obvious she felt that Isaac didn't really want her so she did what she wanted. And she may have been wrong to go ahead and f*** Nolla multiple times, but she was honest about what she did and why, but she was right that Isaac didn't really want her. So she decided to enjoy herself. I may not agree with her actions but I respect her for owning them and being honest about it. Clearly she would not have done it if she didn't already think the relationship was over. There's no way she thought Isaac would take her back.
Me too! Feels like I’m in the twilight zone.
To me Ruth went there with the goal of having exactly what she had with Nolla. She just isn’t ready for marriage and not with Isaac and she did what not settled people do, she flirted and played