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My ex girlfriend’s best friend liked my profile. Would it be bad to match with her? Just so happens to be the same day my ex went on a date.
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Am I the only one confused by this photo? Like… what’s the point? It’s half censored and provides zero context or information.
All I got out of it was "Dating me will lo..." It adds as much as this one:
in my experience if there’s no picture it doesn’t show up in people’s feeds so it may just be ticking the box idk
This is the comment I came looking for.
Came inside the thread to type something similar. It adds nothing when we can’t see or dissect
Careful. That’s how thread babies are made.
It’s probably because you cannot post without a picture and you need to just force posting any to get an advice in such cases
You can see a white men with dreadlocks and I think that’s already a lot
I’m not white 🤣🤣. I’m black with two black parents, but thank you though. I’m just a lighter tone depending on the lighting.
On plenty of social media platforms, possibly including reddit, pictures get more engagement even if they add no information or context.
Somebody craves drama
Or dick
Or vag 🤷♀️
Or feet
Or my axe!
Or dead animals
And then come back complaining how things went wrong and it's reddits fault
When I’m feeling suicidal by the hand of others, I would always date, and bang my ex’s best friends.
Edit: spelling, and never compose when you first wake up, sigh.
Yeah as a woman I’m gonna go out on a limb and say there is a good chance this chick is crazy.
so what i’m hearing is that op should match her immediately?
He can change her.
Crazy sex>>>>peanut butter
I agree
OP should do it
OP, we need to see the friend to make a solid decision.
We need to figure out the hot to crazy ratio.
Or she's one of those women who swipes right on everyone for the attention.
100 percent do it
Let the hate flow through you.
Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate. Hate leads to hate fucking
This man is correct.
I fucking love that this is the top comment. 😭
Smash. Assert dominance.
I wonder why he asked the question when she could the best girl for him
💯
He isn’t over his ex…
Sure ain’t! 😞
Tinder is not gonna fix it, unironically hit the gym + hobbies
It might not fix it but it will put his mind else where and find his someone. Go on dates dude
nah ill die on this hill, if you are not over somebody, dont go on dates with other people and waste their time with your unresolved baggage
Then don’t go getting the bestie into it if rebpund.
How do you know she went on a date?
Then get off dating apps, man. Hurt people hurt people.
Anyone telling you to do it is toxic and weird tbh
Feel your emotions fully bro
Underrated comment. 👏
Noone ever is
DO IT
Goddammit, you beat me tew it.
what movie is this from?
She probably was into you while you were dating her friend. Now that you’re free go for it and have fun.
Or the ex girlfriend has encouraged her to swipe on him to see if he swipes back. I wouldn’t be surprised if the ex knows. If anyone in my friend group saw someone’s ex on a dating app it would definitely be screenshot and in the group chat
Even if this is true, and it very well could be, I think OP should still do it.
Send it and see what happens before assuming that it's all a setup. You'll never know unless you do it.
Yeah even if it is a setup who gives af really nothing to lose imo and everything to gain.
My mind went straight here. My ex used her friends account 2 years later to try and flirt with me and find out my business since I don't post on my socials all that much. Unfortunately for her she was still very dry while undercover
Yay for toxic behavior, yes the now single person is on the same dating app that you and your friends use how shocking everyone much talk about it and judge them.
This! It's a trap 🤣
Maybe a trap, but what are even the consequences? If OP still fucks her best friend--mission accomplished!
This has absolutely what’s happened lol
All the more reason to fuck her friends
Who cares though? Best case scenario, you bang the friend. Worst case scenario, your ex and her friends talk shit behind your back, and you'll never know or hear about it.
These scenarios are actually not mutually exclusive.
If she goes for it, the friendship might be over. The friendship probably wasn't strong enough to begin with. This will be doing her a favor. Whether she sees it that way now or not.
Who needs enemies
This path you are on ... You will find no peace in it. I know.
But it's fun to yell YOLO from the sidelines. You know the internet loves a good mess.
A path of no peace, that’s true. But a path to a piece, maybe…
Nah rebound and have fun. Live life. Don’t mope if you don’t have to.
My guess is anything you say to her gets reported back to the ex.