Alexander Graham Bell in Love
This story was written by National Geographic staffer Laura Wallach, who researched it in our archives.
Mabel Gardiner Hubbard was only five years old when scarlet fever rendered her deaf for life. At the age of 17, she would meet a young Scottish speech therapist who was destined to shape her life. Gardiner Greene Hubbard, Mabel’s father and National Geographic’s first president, took a liking to the industrious teacher and part-time inventor. We know him better as Alexander Graham Bell. This is their love story.
The 27-year-old Alexander fell in love with Mabel when she was 17, but it was an unreciprocated fancy. “He was tall and dark with jet-black hair and eyes, but dressed badly and carelessly,” she said. “I could never marry such a man!” Despite her initial disinterest, she began to grow fond of him during his time as her speech teacher and their relationship evolved. After one of her first classes with him, a giddy Mabel wrote to her mother: “Mr. Bell said today my voice is naturally sweet.” In a letter to Mabel on the night of their engagement, Alexander wrote, “I am afraid to fall asleep, lest I should find it all a dream — so I shall lie awake and think of you.”
Alexander and Mabel had two daughters together — Elsie and Daisy. Elsie went on to marry Gilbert Hovey Grosvenor, National Geographic magazine’s first editor-in-chief, solidifying the family ties to the Society for another generation.
In addition to the telephone, Alexander was fascinated with other inventions, such as flying machines and hydrofoil technology. “Every day I see something new in him to love and admire,” she said. “It is wonderful that he should be so clever…so utterly without conceit of any kind.”
The 1939 film, “The Story of Alexander Graham Bell
I dread absence from you,” Alexander once wrote to Mabel. “Let us lay it down as a principle of our lives that we shall be together.” And be together they were, for over 45 years. Alexander died in 1922 from complications from diabetes. Shortly before he died, Mabel held on to his hand and pleaded, “Don’t leave me.” Unable to speak, he replied, “No” in sign language.
For more archival photos of the Bells, see Nat Geo Newswatch blog.
Last summer our Digital Nomad Andrew Evans visited the modest Bell homestead in the town of Brantford, Ontario, where Bell placed the first telephone call, and discovered the inventor’s “dreaming place” out back.
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