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250 pages, Paperback
First published January 1, 2010
Even when he began introducing his Council, I enjoyed it. But a couple of things bothered me. First, because of the way he interweaves story about what was currently going on in terms of his treatment, history, letters to his family and friends, and introducing his Council, we don't meet the last guy until he's already all the way through his treatment and been given the "all clear." That timing was off-putting for me. Second, by the middle of the book, the writing style started to feel a little too Mitch Albom for me: kind of sappy and offering cliche life lessons. There was also a feeling of unreality to the book in that Feiler was not your average Joe who got cancer, and his friends were not average either (one has "multiple Emmys," one offered "commentary alongside Bob Costas at the opening ceremonies of the Beijing Olympics," all but one has traveled the world extensively, etc.). Let me be clear: I am in no way trying to minimize what the author went through; it was horrific. However, when I got the book I was hoping to read about how someone like me would struggle with such a diagnosis. Not that there is not struggle in this book; there is very clearly physical struggle through chemotherapy and surgery, then more chemo and physical therapy, there is struggle with fears and struggle with trying to protect a family from the chaos that surrounds potentially terminal illness. But, there were many ways in which Feiler did not have to struggle. He was very well connected and was able to see the best doctor in the country for his cancer. Money was not an issue for him and his family; he was able to devote his time and energy to fighting his disease for a year without having to worry about losing the house. I would have rather read the story of some ordinary guy who never wrote a book before (or at least someone who doesn't have his own Wikipedia page), who doesn't have an extensive and well-connected support system, for whom money is an issue, and who isn't always able to keep his sense of humor, i.e. someone I could relate to more, someone more real.
All in all, this is a good book. I liked it, but it was not amazing to me. I recognize that most of my criticisms of it tell about me as much as about the book, so I recommend you read it and make your own decision. You may find it inspiring.