Firstly let's go with the data and science: the data show that -- per type of game played-- women harass as often as men, and women and men are harassed in gaming equally.
The peer reviewed work (dozens) shows boys and men prefer more highly competitive online games, and girls and women prefer more cooperative ones. You whine at that and what it means for people claiming that despite the major differences in biology between genders -- that men and women have to be identical -- but that doesn't change that men and women play on average very different types of online games
People playing highly competitive online games tend to have during game play heightened aggression. men and and women both do. It is just men play those types of games more often.
So the fact that some fraction of people trying to kill you on line might be saying "suck my *%)# and die" in the chat of call of duty, and others might be nicer in co-op game, does NOT reflect some greater staement about society and gender. OK?
Really the culture of offense went over the top with "gamer-gate" type nonsense. Highly competitive game play is just that, it includes all kinds of nonsense. "There isn't an iota of evidence that this is sexual harassment.