Queen Naija Tells Women Leave Relationships If Not Engaged Before 10 Years

Queen Naija Stirs Debate After Telling Women To Leave Their Relationships If Their Man Doesn’t Propose Before 10 Years

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#Socialites, get a load of this! Singer Queen Naija tells her man Clarence White, and other women listening, that she will leave him if he doesn’t propose before they spend 10 years together as boyfriend and girlfriend.

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In a recent video uploaded to their joint YouTube, Queen and Clarence, the couple sits in front of camera to answer questions from fans, one of which leaves Naija telling her women subscribers that they should have the same mentality as her when it comes to leaving a relationship if their man hasn’t proposed before making 10 years.

During the couple’s Q&A, one person said, “Boyfriend of 10 years not asking to marry me. We’ve been living together for 4 years.” Naija and White both agreed that 10 years was “crazy.”

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Naija added, “After 10 years? And y’all been living together for 4 years, so, y’all do have experience with living together.” Queen Naija then asks her man Clarence White what was his take on the situation.

He said, “I mean, you should probably have a conversation and see if has that in his head, see if he’s planning to do it or not. Maybe there’s something stopping him from doing it. 10 years is a pretty long time.” 

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Queen Naija then advises the anonymous fan to try couples therapy. She says, “Maybe y’all should go to therapy, or something, and see what exactly is stopping him. If you’ve been doing everything that you can do, honestly, I just feel like a man knows.”

White then asks Queen Naija what she would do at that point and she  quips, “I would leave.” White says, “After 10 years?,” and she again quips, “Yes, I would definitely [leave]. 10 years is crazy, it is.” White then asks, “What if she’s, like, 48? You don’t know how old that lady is.”

Naija responds, “Babe, your life is not over at 48 or 50. I’ve seen 50-year-old women… J.Lo [Jennifer Lopez] is past 50. It’s beautiful women out there. You can still get yourself… It’s never too late. I don’t think it’s too late.”

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White agrees, “Nah, it’s never too late, I’m not saying it’s too late. I’m just saying, I think it would make it a little more difficult… You gotta understand, in order to put yourself in her shoes… Like, you’re saying, ‘It’s easy. Oh, I would leave.’ But, she hasn’t left, obviously, because she’s been there for 10 years. So, she’s not leaving for a reason.”

Naija adds, “But, if that’s something that you genuinely, like, really want and if you find out that your partner has no intentions… First of all, see if he has intentions of doing it. Have y’all ever talked about it?” White jumps in, “He might not. I’m not gonna lie, he might not. After 10 years? He might not.”

Naija advises, “If that’s something that you want, but he doesn’t want. Then maybe you need to break up with your boyfriend to find your husband.

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