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Unironically, it's Neil's dad. He's a single dad supporting himself and his son kids, they're obviously not very well off but he still tries to make sure Neil has money when he goes out with his mates, and although he's a bit too passive he clearly wants the best for them. Plus you could argue that Neil turns out the most well adjusted of the group even if he's a bit thick.

Second place is Simon's dad. He's generally supportive, fairly level headed even when Simon was getting accused of climbing through that kid's window. He obviously loves his family as you can see when he breaks down at the end of the series when his family has to move to Swansea.

IMO he loses points because he emotionally dumps on Simon a lot, and asking to borrow his son's laptop so he can have a wank is a bit fucking strange.

Last place is a toss up between Jay's emotionally abusive dad and Will's completely absent one. Personally I think Will's dad is slightly worse seeing as he completely abandons his family and clearly doesn't want anything to do with Will.

Jay's dad is a prick but he seems more manageable, you'd just have to have thick skin, and he's at least somewhat present as a wife and husband. I get the impression he's trying to toughen Jay up without realising the effect he's having. Will's dad is horrible in a way that just cuts deep.

Agree with this take. For all the great comedy written into the series, there's actually really good character writing into the series as well. A lot of Jay and Will's problems clearly stem from their relationships with their awful fathers. Neil and Simon's Dad's are written as slightly cringey (and yea in Simon's case a bit more than slightly cringey sometimes) but wayyy nicer than the other 2.

The scene where Jay has a conversation with his Dad about feelings for a girl in series 2 is a big eye opener. You can tell that he's not just a weird Dad with an inappropriate sense of humour. He clearly has no idea how to talk to his son properly at all.

The opening scene of the first movie is similar. Will clearly wants to talk about leaving school and going to university but all his Dad does is take the piss and then immediately change the conversation to the wedding he didn't even invite his son to.

Yeah, Jay's Dad is written so well (as a character) that you can immediately see the effect he has on Jay and the parenting skills or lack thereof he consistently shows towards him.

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He's a single dad supporting himself and his son

why are you ignoring Katy? Did you two have a story?

Ha! He wishes!

u/Useful_Design_7437 avatar

…I don’t understand.

Well that's awful. But it's not.... Well it's not relevant, is it?

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It’s that whole thing with Jays Dad, that once you get older you realise what loser he is, and hopefully you can just laugh at him rather than the other way round. Having said that, it is difficult for a son to turn the tables as nothing looms larger than your father.

Just cos you let some useless tosser blow his beans up your muff! Well done, merry fucking Christmas!

u/daftpenguin01 avatar

“Beans?!”

Beans & muff.

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‘Are you busy?’ ‘I’ll get busy if you want Love heh heh!!

You'll be next, Gazza likes 'em posh!

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u/Ozzy_T69 avatar

It was nice of jays dad to be present as a wife. Jay had to shag someone all this time the little chubby chasing virgin

u/Anon-5874644 avatar

Jay’s dad is present as a wife and husband💀

u/moreplatessomedates avatar

I didn't even notice I wrote that but it's hilarious so I'm leaving it in.

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u/CarpenterSeparate178 avatar

But Neil’s mum ran off because his dad loves cock.

u/Jockstaposition avatar

Why would that make him a bad father?

u/Otokonoko-2004 avatar

Probably because he thinks that it only makes him a "bad" husband…

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Thank you for participating in Neil's Dad Pride Parade 🙏

u/Richrome_Steel avatar

"He's at least somewhat present as a wife and husband"
LOL

u/No_Newt_328 avatar

Father and husband, surely...?

u/sheslikebutter avatar

I think you've given the more thought than the writers did but it's a good breakdown

u/Mammyjam avatar

I think Jay’s dad just had to develop an overly aggressive sense of humour due to his regular private poker tournament with Danny Dyer and the Krays tbh

u/HGKS9477 avatar

Neil's dad is a pedo mate.

u/moreplatessomedates avatar

That is enough. Just because Kevin's gay doesn't automatically make him a pedophile.

He's not gay, he was married

u/Otokonoko-2004 avatar

Oscar Wilde was married

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The bloody gay vicar

No no no no he’s not a vicar

Yeah, but he looks like a vicar and he talks like a vicar. A bloody gay vicar or sommin!

Well he’s not a vicar and he’s not gay

u/Charmless_Man_2005 avatar

No he was saying that he looked gay but he can’t be because auld soppy bollocks came from his pipe.

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u/SergeantLovecraftian avatar

Oy, his dad's not bent!

u/lerriuqS_terceS avatar

Kevin it's ok that you're gay

u/TheGreatBatsby avatar

Just because Kevin is gay doesn't automatically make him a paedophile.

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u/Otokonoko-2004 avatar

He is a bit though!

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STOP PRIEST!

u/LosersWipe avatar

FATHEEEERRRR!

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Bumder!

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Serious answer, Simon’s dad is by far the best parent we see.

u/ladderyertights avatar

i love how genuine his and simon's mum's relationship is as well. ik how embarassing it is for simon, but it's so sweet to see.

Unless you tell him Babylon 5’s a big pile of shit. Then all bets are off.

Christ, I never thought I’d see someone quote Spaced. Every time I quote it people just look confused lol same for withnail & I.

u/BunchPowerful7608 avatar

Withnail & I is a forgotten classic and people don’t realise the genius of it. I still quote it regularly.

“We’ve gone on holiday by mistake” absolutely gets me every time. I always tell people to watch it but they show no interest. I’ll forever quote this film lol.

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Withnail and I is one of the (few) films I've been wanting to watch for years now.

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It’s one of my all-time favourite sitcoms - I make a point to rewatch it as often as I can. Also I have dropped Tim’s Timewarp rant into casual conversation word-for-word at least once (It makes me look funnier than I actually am).

Absolutely. The paintball episode is brilliant!

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u/Physical-Exit-2899 avatar

Holy shit, I'd have never realized that was him

u/TheGreatBatsby avatar

Hawk the Slayer's rubbish!

You’re right - but let’s give Krull a try, and we’ll discuss it later.

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His brilliant in phone shop plays a similar type of character too

This is the reason why he's my favourite because I just see him as Lance at home in the role of Simon's dad.

Exactly! 😄

The concern in his voice when he thinks Simon was perving on Carly's little brother and the relief when he says "I've been googling chemical castration all night" never fails to make me laugh. That's peak Lance right there!

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u/Thejustinset avatar

“Not kiddy’s Si”

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u/Odd-Door-2553 avatar

I would say Neil's dad, but I'm a bit biased as I'm a fan of the actor.

I loved him in The Thick Of It.

It’s Julias, the Lord Nicholson of Arnage actually…

The man who makes the bhaji go away?

EAT THE CHEESE NICHOLSON!

u/redmistultra avatar

The bald man has done a funny!

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Have some chow mein!

u/ChadlexMcSteele avatar

These are good biscuits! They cost £4!

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Lord Baldemort

Julius, the big baldy ballbag

Lord Baldemort

u/DunnayReddit avatar

Named after my uncle (Julius Nicholson) by his childhood friend Jesse Armstrong haha

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Bet he loves a thick one too

Oh I said Simon's dad because I'm biased as a fan of Phoneshop

Same reasoning different answer

u/BrettDilkington1 avatar

Tbf it is odd how they’re all very recognisable British sit com faces, I guess we haven’t got a massive pool to choose from

True true

I mean strictly speaking Anthony Head is my favourite as an actor because c'mon Giles

But Wills dad was an even bigger prick than jay's lol

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Are you bent? Just right then, you sounded really bent

u/RDWRER2000 avatar

Oh Nnnneeeeeeeeeeiiiiiiiiiiilllllllllllllllllll

u/my_thousand_fads avatar

Plays an amazing part in The Magicians also - a film which was panned at the time, but honestly I think is a solid bit of Biritish comedy with a great cast:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLFSpfUJIBA

u/HGKS9477 avatar

I'm eating the Bhaji.

He is also in downtown Abbey a new era!

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u/BearOdd4213 avatar
  1. Simon's dad - bit embarrassing but he seems like a genuinely good guy who loves his family

  2. Neil's dad - a bit of a pushover but like Simon's dad he's a genuinely good guy who loves his family

  3. Will's dad - prick. Cheats on his family with a woman half his age, shows little interest in Will's life, openly mocks Will over his strange interests and social awkwardness (unlike Jay's dad he's very subtle with his insults), doesn't even invite Will to his wedding and refuses to keep paying to keep sending Will to his old posh school which he preferred, forcing the socially awkward Will to move schools and start from the bottom making friends again

  4. Jay's dad - for obvious reasons. The type of father that future serial killers have. However I don't think he would be abusive if he had a son like Donovan or James from the first movie. He's just abusive to Jay because he views him as a disappointment

u/Bladon95 avatar

It’s interesting the actor who plays wills dad plays some abusive manipulating cheating prick in multiple shows this and ted lasso.

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Will’s dad is Carli’s actually dad I think

Yeah that's right.

Anthony Stuart-Head is a treasure.

u/thedarlingbuttsofmay avatar

He's very good at playing absolute bastards, despite also having been the best father figure imaginable in Buffy.

He plays an absolute bastard in Ted Lasso

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Simons. 3 reasons. He put up with him.He was always there for him and his not a fraud like Neil's dad ( his gay but claims to be straight) or Jay's dad who has no love for him.

u/marcsideoftheforce avatar

Neil's dad isn't a fraud, he's clearly straight but just astronomically camp (some lesbo)

Mmm I always being hinted not even as a joke that he was just pretending to be straight. Fair enough.