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I am the only ugly young white guy

There is no other young white guy with a face as uniquely bizarre as mine, I genuinely can't comprehend other young white guys being as uniquely bizarrely facially ugly as I am, it just seems like a legitimate impossibility, I can't comprehend it and I don't think those people exist, I literally feel like the ONLY ugly young white guy in all of existence and the history of humans, I don't think there's any other young white guy with a face as truly bizarre as mine without literally being deformed

I get stared at everywhere I go, my face scares children, women could look more disgusted at me if they tried, I just hate this so much, I never wanted to become attractive, just normal looking is enough to get by in this world

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This is 100% anxiety, paranoia and body dismorphia taking over. I hope you will take this on board and recognise that there is help available, you don't deserve to feel this way. There are also things you can do physically to boost your confidence (working out, styling yourself, building relationships) but I'm in no way saying you need to change how you look, only how you feel.

Google Lyle Lovett. Not exactly the most handsome man, not by a long shot. Uniquely ugly if you ask me . Would you have guessed he was married at one time to Julia Roberts, an actress known for her beauty? More so, he remarried later to another woman even more pretty and younger.

Ugliness is not a hindrance people make it out to be to finding friends, love, marriage.

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Lyle Lovett is an American singer, songwriter, actor, and record producer. He's known for his distinct blend of country, swing, jazz, folk, gospel, and blues music. Lovett has released numerous albums and has won multiple Grammy Awards for his work.

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I googled him, ugly isn't the right word to describe him I think, his features are still quite good. Looks alone, in his 20s and 30s he could be like a 7-8

 

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There are plenty of clever ways to hide your ugliness if you’re really that insecure.

Wear glasses and a hat etc. wear a hoodie a lot. Not sure what type of advice you’re looking for but I know how it feels to be ugly also but I will never use it for an excuse as to why my life sucks.

There are plenty ugly athletes/musicans etc. it didn’t hold them back

You haven't seen me buddy

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It is kind a problem to give you helpful advice because I can't determine whether you simply lack self-confidence and self-esteem or whether you really are, as you say, ugly.

I wouldn't like to give you misleading advice due to incorrect assumptions.

And I understand that this is the Internet and it's a bit dangerous. Besides, the request itself seems strange, but perhaps you could share your photo so that we can rationally assess the level of your ugliness?

maybe it's just a matter of a poorly chosen hairstyle, but until we have a clear view advice may not be very helpful

look up Franck Ribèry. you’re fine bro. people all look different and everyone has their own struggles. my uncle was born with a giant birthmark on his face and half of his head is red. get in the gym and get your confidence up. no one is coming to save us besides ourselves

Are you the dude who makes videos with his Asian wife? Cause if not then there’s at least two of you

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I haven't seen this dude, is there a doppelganger of me somewhere?

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Damnnnn are you saying I look like the dude?

Saying doesn’t matter what you look like, look at him. If he can make it so can all of us

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It's further down in my posts, you can see a video of me getting disgusted reactions on Omegle

Okay I watched it.

You're not ugly. Your face is average.

However, you're overweight, you don't look healthy, and you look very depressed and negative.

The good news is that you can change it. The bad news is that changing your opinion of yourself is going to be very hard. You can either continue this self fulfilling prophecy of you being unattractive (because yes, currently you are), or you can decide to stop wallowing in self pity and start working in yourself.

Its not going to be easy, and it will take time, but I GUARANTEE you that if you put in the work, you can absolutely become an attractive man. I'm not 99% sure. I'm 100% sure. GUARANTEED.

The choice is yours.

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