a northern european country with these characteristics

Hello to everybody. I'm a 32yo male, I've read all the threads in infj expat related but still I'm not sure. I'm from souther europe, looking for a northern european country where housing is affordable, unkilled job pays me to cover rent and bills, people are accepting of infj and accepting of mental illness, I have ocd, possibly a country where I could also get an university degree. It is my first post. dont know if I am asking too much or in the right way. tring to get away from a narcissistic family cluster and I would like to build a life somewhere else. Obviously I am willing to commit in learning the language but I dont know which one.. icelandic, swedish, finnish, dutch, etc.. Thanks for your help. Thanks.